{"id":2671,"date":"2020-10-13T12:10:35","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T10:10:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sensyma.com\/?p=2671"},"modified":"2020-10-25T17:10:57","modified_gmt":"2020-10-25T16:10:57","slug":"osons-etre-libre-de-nos-choix-de-vie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sensyma.com\/?p=2671","title":{"rendered":"Osons \u00eatre libre de nos choix de vie !"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1&Prime; _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.19&Prime;][et_pb_row _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.19&Prime;][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb4_4&Prime; _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.19&Prime; parallax=\u00a0\u00bboff\u00a0\u00bb parallax_method=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_image src=\u00a0\u00bbhttps:\/\/www.sensyma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/book-cover-865428_1280-1024&#215;638.jpg\u00a0\u00bb align=\u00a0\u00bbcenter\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.19&Prime; max_width=\u00a0\u00bb60%\u00a0\u00bb][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.19&Prime; custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb27px|0px|102px|0px|false|false\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb4_4&Prime; _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.19&Prime; parallax=\u00a0\u00bboff\u00a0\u00bb parallax_method=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.19&Prime; text_font=\u00a0\u00bb||||||||\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pour \u00eatre libre de nos choix de vie, il nous faut <strong>prendre conscience de nos dynamiques familiales.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Il nous faut identifier ce que nos parents projettent (ou ont projet\u00e9), sur nous, de leurs traumatismes refoul\u00e9s et de leurs aspirations contrari\u00e9es. Il nous faut <strong>d\u00e9crypter le r\u00f4le que nous jouons au nom de la paix familiale.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Pour \u00eatre libre de nos choix de vie, il nous faut, aussi, <\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 17px;\">nous lib\u00e9rer des m\u00e9moires<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><strong> de souffrances transg\u00e9n\u00e9rationnelles<\/strong>, inscrites dans le pass\u00e9 et transmises de <strong>g\u00e9n\u00e9ration<\/strong> en g\u00e9n\u00e9ration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Pour \u00eatre libre de nos choix de vie, il nous faut <strong>rendre son histoire \u00e0 l\u2019anc\u00eatre qui nous interpelle<\/strong> pour, enfin, nous autoriser \u00e0 \u00e9crire notre propre histoire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">L\u00e0 commence une aventure qui nous am\u00e8ne \u00e0 <\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 17px;\">r\u00e9parer ce qui doit l\u2019\u00eatre<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">&nbsp;:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li>reconna\u00eetre la blessure inflig\u00e9e (abandon, humiliation, n\u00e9gation de souffrance, rejet, exclusion, trahison injustice, \u2026) et la soigner,<\/li>\n<li>reconna\u00eetre l\u2019appartenance \u00e0 sa famille en lui restituant sa place,<\/li>\n<li>lui reconna\u00eetre son histoire et la lui rendre&nbsp;; il en a l\u2019unique responsabilit\u00e9.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ainsi nous nous lib\u00e9rons d\u2019une lourdeur, d\u2019une douleur, voire d\u2019un traumatisme qui ne nous appartient pas et pouvons en toute libert\u00e9 \u00e9crire notre propre histoire.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Utiliser notre Mal \u00catre pour travailler sur notre histoire familiale, c\u2019est partir \u00e0 la rencontre des personnages qui participent de notre identit\u00e9&nbsp;; c\u2019est revisiter des \u00e9v\u00e9nements qui nous ont inscrits dans le temps, qui d\u00e9limitent notre espace et impactent nos choix.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u00catre loyal envers les siens, \u00eatre loyal envers l\u2019anc\u00eatre dont l\u2019histoire nous appelle, ne veut pas dire reproduire cette histoire. <strong>Il est attendu de nous d\u2019\u00e9clairer pour r\u00e9parer, pas de nous approprier ce qui ne nous appartient pas.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Par amour, l\u00e0 est notre loyaut\u00e9, nous allons \u00e9clairer les secrets, d\u00e9faire les n\u0153uds, r\u00e9tablir les v\u00e9rit\u00e9s&nbsp;; redonner tout son sens \u00e0 l\u2019histoire<strong>, pour clore l\u2019inachev\u00e9<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">En apportant la lumi\u00e8re, nous red\u00e9finirons notre r\u00f4le dans notre dynamique familiale, nous mettrons un terme, m\u00eame de fa\u00e7on symbolique, \u00e0 un chapitre du pass\u00e9 et <\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 17px;\">nous ouvrirons une porte sur l\u2019avenir<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Ne restons pas prisonniers volontaires de nos histoires familiales pass\u00e9es. Prenons le temps de les d\u00e9m\u00ealer avec pertinence, pour les accepter avec bienveillance. Au jeu de la vie elles seront les compr\u00e9hensions et les enseignements n\u00e9cessaires \u00e0 notre maturit\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Comprendre ce qui a contribu\u00e9 \u00e0 faire de nous ce que nous sommes, nous d\u00e9senchaine et nous permet de d\u00e9cider de <\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 17px;\">ce que nous voulons, pour Nous, dans notre \u00ab&nbsp;ici et maintenant&nbsp;\u00bb<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Nous avons la capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 faire des choix libres et responsables, l\u2019aspiration \u00e0 d\u00e9cider de nos vies. Affirmons notre libre-arbitre en triant, dans notre h\u00e9ritage trans g\u00e9n\u00e9rationnel, les legs qui contribueront \u00e0 notre \u00e9panouissement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Soyons cr\u00e9atifs dans les moyens que nous nous donnons \u00e0 <strong>\u00e9couter notre Moi profond<\/strong> et \u00e0 tracer le chemin de notre r\u00e9alisation.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Osons \u00eatre libre de nos choix de vie pour \u00e9crire notre propre histoire.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00ab Si on ne comprend pas son histoire et dans quoi elle s&rsquo;inscrit,<\/p>\n<p>on n&rsquo;est pas libre de faire des choix \u00e0 soi. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Anne Ancelin Sch\u00fctzenberger<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb0|0px|0|0px|false|false\u00a0\u00bb 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